Saturday, October 15, 2011

Needing to vent!!!

     I am going through a hard time right now.  I have been unhappy in SC since 2007.  It has become harder and harder every year as my children become older and my husband becomes distant.  A couple of weeks ago he expressed interest in a job back in Ca and had an interview that didn't go the best.  After that he all of a sudden flipped on me and said he wouldn't move back to Ca and I just better get over it basically.  All of my family is in Ca with cousins that are close in age to my children.  I have expressed my unhappiness to him and he seems basically not to care to me.  I have no friends here and have turned into someone, in some ways, that I don't want to be.  Today he basically told me to go ahead and leave because he isn't going anywhere.  I don't want my marriage to end but I also don't to be somewhere that I am unhappy and not at my best.  Since I don't work I also don't have the means at this time to leave which he knows.  I don't know what to do.


  1. I'll be praying for your situation, remember to seek God in all that you do, think and feel. He well lead you to the answer!

  2. I am definitely praying and trying to hear what God is saying to me.

  3. Hi Chandra

    I believe we are grouped up in a new "challenge" for January. (Yes, I'm a stalker. I googled your name to see if you had a blog.)

    I just really felt for you when I read this post. It's hard to be somewhere where you do not think you are happy. I have experienced this myself over the past few years. All of a sudden now, though, I have decided to take my life back and just enjoy it wherever I am. I encourage you to do the same.

    I can't wait to see where our new journey takes us.